The in law you never wanted to have

2011-12-25T23:52:00.002+08:00

I dont understand whats with the locking of door again. Didnt try opening the door but all i heard was keys sound unlocking the door so i assume so? Hope i was wrong then.

2010-01-25T22:55:00.000+08:00

Save the hassle of doing all the childish thing in front me,

just voice out your unhappiness straight in front of my face the next time

2010-01-23T23:50:00.002+08:00

I dare you to say it in front of me,

wtf did you gain by saying so loud behind me like you ALWAYS do.

Please define your give you so many clothes to wash.

Its just an additional of bedsheet more.

If you are so fcking so unhappy, you can jolly well not wash it.

It doesnt matter to me.

Dont need to show your attitude here.

What using bucket to bang the cupboard so loud,

purposely throwing our clothes against the wall so i will notice.

So you feel so damn good after doing all this 小人 action.

HAH! funny,

i dare you to say it in front of me the next time.

Locked room

2010-01-15T13:05:00.002+08:00

Since last monday i bought babies back,

the toy room was locked in the afternoon and only unlocked in the night.

I think hard of a reason why

and then now i conclude that MIL locked the room in the afternoon because his "king" would be sleeping and this would normally be the time korkor and didi lunch time around 1pm.

Korkor and didi would always go into the toy room to take out their motor and bicycle to play while eating.

I bet its the noise they made while playing caused her to locked the room.

Shall try it out one day if my conclusion is right.

2010-01-13T12:58:00.000+08:00

I think i mentioned before that MIL allows his "king" to play with food.

Did i?

Anyway, it doesnt bother me at all everytime he play

but, but

this time he is playing with the food i bought.

WTF right?

They dont mind eating food that is thrown over and over again but i mind okay.

Its like any normal people wouldnt go to the super market and buy food dropped over and over again right.

Next time when you allowed your "king" to play with food.

Please use your retard brain and think of this,

its a sin to play with food.

It will be a glorious victory without the support of your cloest one.

2010-01-08T03:17:00.002+08:00

As the tittle above shows,

since you got your friends,

you dont even need me.

Unreasonable?

Not understanding?

Whatever you say.

At least from the day you said you wanna race,

i kept everything i wanna say in my heart till today.

I never intended to go out and play or anything.

I said everything to spite you so i feel better, SO SO much better.

When you said that you will be pressurised when you saw me there,

any idiot would know not to go there then already.

So what can i even do beside agreeing to what you say, thats no point protesting anymore.

But have you even considered my feelings when you said that?

How useless i feel as a wife that i cannot even go down and support you all because of the word PRESSURISED.

Okay, since you are the one racing and you feel pressurised with my presence.

(I should be understanding about that, but i dont and i dont want to.)

Then what about when i told you that sylvia wanna see your race instead.

You reject STRAIGHT away, didnt you.

SO whats the problem now?

Would you even feel pressurised with my friend presence?

So does it mean everyone who got connections with me cannot even see the race.

Then make it a private event then, whereby only you and him in the race.

Fcking rubbish you are talking here.

Now because i inform you that im going out with my friends.

You beg me and invited me to go.

HELLO !?!

Mr low, im not a begger or anything here.

I dont need sympathy from you

and im not fcking desperate to go.

And you do all this because you dont want me to go out.

Thats so obvious and fake.

Hypocrite.

One more thing, if knowing that i will be waiting for you at home is the reason

you would come home safetly and winning.

(which i think its just an excuse to keep me from going out with my friends.)

you would have told me that you will come back home STRAIGHT after your race

and not saying,

"if i win then i will go and eat with them lor."

For that moment, i realise im not a important person to you, NOT AT ALL.

Because i dont wanna let you feel pressurised, i didnt went to watch your race

but, but but

at least, the first person to share this joyious moment should be me and not any of your friends.

Well. since you are going to celebrate with them,

i see no need in celebrating with you anymore.

I might as well go out and enjoy with the PRESENCE of my friends.

ps: If you apologised BACK, things would be better.

No point saying anything any more.

pps: i fcking despise you alot, i never even go still use take money from me.

ppps: and you wanted this race yourself didnt you.

and you fcking dare to say i will pressurized you with my presence.

I didnt you force you to race and never force you to get a winning tittle back.

Im so angry.

Super unhappy.

Very pissed off.

Fuck it.

2010-01-01T13:22:00.000+08:00

MIL = WOMAN HITLER

The battle is not yet to be begin

2009-12-31T01:15:00.004+08:00

Seriously i cant be bothered with her childish behaviour.

It doesnt in the least affects me anymore.

Im keeping quiet all the time doesnt mean you can go over the limits.

Its just that im planning the best move to hit you hard on the ground.

Do whatever you want and see who has the last laugh in the end.

Even a king needs to follow the rules

2009-12-29T22:25:00.000+08:00

I got to salute to her that she actually let his "king" do whatever he wants

Even turning the whole refrigerator upside down.

2009-12-21T20:23:00.003+08:00

You all may treat your "king" as someone very precious

but that doesnt mean he can do as he wish

and he fucking has no right to even beat my prince(s)

while you all do nothing to it.

Its time to grow up

2009-12-19T01:24:00.005+08:00

sometimes i feel like slapping you real hard.

you are already a 50plus maybe going 60years old woman.

I already gave in ALOT to you, what else do you expect from me.

Can you please wake up from all your childish thinking and stop acting like a 3year old kid.

2009-12-17T20:37:00.000+08:00

Dont vent your anger on me just because your "king" scald his hands.

Wtf did i even do?

Attitude problem ?

2009-10-03T19:38:00.000+08:00

For no apparent reason, she would just show you this fucked up face when you walk pass or even stare at you. WOW, what the hell did i do wrong also. Its not like i killed her whole family or something.

Helpful (not)

2009-10-02T19:17:00.000+08:00

Once again, it was them who said before.

一家人要互相帮忙. 如过有碗就帮忙洗.

and there they were doing another thing.

Contradicting right ?

Everytime when me and hubby finish eating, i would wash the plates

and if there is dishes on the basin already, its common sense you would wash it too.

Well, you know i have to look after 3 babies myself so sometimes when im busy i would tend to forget to go back and continue washing the plates and she would just leave it in the basin when she is washing their own dishes and the thing that can pissed you off is that sometimes she can even take out all the dirty plates and put beside my babies container(which i use to store milk bottles).

Since she can take the trouble to take it out, why not just wash it.

It wont kill you washing a little.

2009-10-01T17:48:00.000+08:00

I really get enough of her stupid actions already.

She's an adult and an elder already yet acting like a small kids.

Did i ever mention before that the only "communicate between"us is that chair outside our room. She was the one who placed it there after hubby's brothers all moved away.

She was not like that in the past, well not say good but at least much more better than now. Okay, back to the topic.

So basically she will placed the folded clothes there everyday.

That is something which i appreciated what she have done.

But not by placing at the chair tho.

So if we got mails or anything, she would just place it there.

Okay then once, kor kor was playing with the empty bottle and he did not throw away after playing and she just put the empty bottle on the chair.

Maybe you all might think that probably she think i want the bottle so she didnt throw it away. Okay forget about that then then another time, while i was bathing for babies as usual,

i forgotten to throw one of the pamper away so she just jolly well place it there instead of throwing it away.

This time round tell me, why i even want to keep a dirty used pamper for and this happens not only once.

There is one time, hubby's friends came and they didnt throw away that packet of drink plastic after drinking and it ended up at the chair too and there is too many to even say it out.

2009-09-30T18:38:00.000+08:00

The arrow pointing is the gas which they never use but its always on to the max.

Its been the third time MIL forgotten to off the gas before they leave the house and its on to the max okay and what puzzle me is that, they didnt use the gas there. Sometimes i wonder do they hate us so much that they always use the infamous way to kill us.

2009-09-29T18:22:00.002+08:00

That MIL is going more and more overboard.

Hubby and me went back my mother's place for a few days to stay and when we got back, i couldnt find didi's milk bottle.

Probably i forgotten to wash it when i bring the babies back because i was rushing.

And i find all the places i could have place the milk bottle, but its still no where to be found.

So hubby called his mother and ask whether she saw the milk bottle and she said no.

I assumed so but when i found the bottle, it was hidden behind and at a corner of the place which was covered by the milk powder tin which cannot be easily be seen. Yeah, that was her again. No mistake for sure. She's definitely a good actor and liar. Salute to her again.

I wonder what do she gain by doing all this.

Hypocrite

2009-09-17T00:54:00.001+08:00

I feel like laughing(sarcastic tone) when i saw MIL giving his "king" spoons, cup, rice scooper and even packet of milo and alot of stuff more to play. Why? Because i remembered last time when korkor was younger back then, i took a spoon and let him play because he keep annoying me so i thought by giving something he never see before, it will make him keep quiet. He did but not for very long, he threw the spoon on the floor when MIL saw that and lectured me. She said that the spoon is for eating and not for him to play like that. Yaya, what about her then? the spoon is not for eating? cup not for drinking? and she took my packet of milo and let him play like that. He throw everything on the floor and she picks it up again for him. So what you are an older person than me, does it mean that you can 说一套做一套? So im so sure that the didi's spoon which was lost must be thrown away by you.

2009-09-15T01:51:00.002+08:00

I dont understand why after hubby's brothers move out, their attitude change

and the worse thing is that they off the air con early in the morning not thinking that there are people who are still sleeping. Yes, Its very early and its not like as if i wont off it when im awake.

Suddenly it occurs to me that, im not a freeloader at home either.

I didnt ask money from them or whatever and at least we pay for the stupid starhub cable vision bill.

Its not alot but at least we pay for something, and the bills was supposed to be shared and now we have to pay for it and its something that we are not even using and the worse thing is that, they add on those stupid old channel that they watched it only.

Yeah, whats the problem huh? you off the air con early in the morning because you think that we are freeloaders and now you are adding on more and more stupid channels to satisfy your own needs. So should you be fair to us now?

Joke of the day.

2009-09-13T02:11:00.000+08:00

That day aunty came to eat dinner and their "king" was climbing on the baby chair and nearly fell.

Then aunty said "king" so mischievous unlike didi and korkor last time and MIL agreed and said that at least they wont climb up on the chair like him. After hearing what MIL said, i feel like laughing out loud. Because from didi was born until now, she only looked after him for less than 24hours, so how much does she even know about him and i can bet didi can be more mischievous than him.

There she goes again

2009-09-10T19:43:00.003+08:00

Before MIL left the house at NIGHT, she say it out so loud.

"MAKE MY BED LIKE KA NA SAI"

But im very sure she is talking about me.

Why?

Because in this house, im the only person she will talk like this

or should i say she is the only person that will talk to me like this.

This time round, i dont even know what has i done.

Because firstly, the babies havent been using her room since MORNING

and even last night when hubby bathe for korkor, im so damn sure that didi didnt do anything to it.

Most probably the bed is ABIT crumple only, but this possibility is almost ZERO.

Because didi dont have the habit on playing on the bed when im bathing for korkor.

Because he will in the toilet too.

Why is wrong with her?

Sometimes i wish i can decipher what is she thinking.

2009-08-28T17:57:00.003+08:00

Just now didi fell down in front of MIL and started crying and she can pretend like as though nothing happens and continue doing her own thing. WTF is this for? I bet anyone who sees a stranger falling down will go and help, moreover he is your grandson.

I feel like giving her a one tight slap you know.

2009-08-25T23:35:00.004+08:00

Im getting super pissed off with MIL already.

I placed the plate at the sink first while waiting for hubby to finish his.

I wanted to wash them all together.

And you know what, MIL was going to wash her plates too and she just jolly well picked up that plate and put it at one corner instead of washing that one pathetic plate of mine.

This is not the first time already.

Oh my... I swear i would not wash her plates anymore if i saw any.

A spoon for a spoon?

2009-08-20T22:41:00.001+08:00

Previously i was saying that i accidently dropped the spoon on the floor and MIL shouted at me

and guess what, the next day,

didi's spoon is missing.

It must be her who threw it away.

I cant think of anybody else.

I cant think of any other possible reason.

Because....

Its only me and MIL doing the washing.

The war has begun

2009-08-19T15:08:00.004+08:00

I was washing washing the dishes and i accidentally drop the spoon.
MIL immediately shout it out loud, " you not happy then dont wash lah"
Finally. Its the first time she say it out LOUD her unhappiness. because whenever she is unhappy, she would just grumble behind me. Obviously she is saying me but she dont wanna say it clearly.
Back to the topic, i got the urge to leave the dishes there and argue back but in the end i tolerated because i think i still need to continue staying with her for quite long. Then i continue washing and walk away after that. What the fuck man. I didnt step on her toe or anything. Whats the fucking problem with her.
AND im sure after today, there will be more to come. Probably when FIL come back, it will be second round? LOL.

I gain a new level of tolerance once again. I wonder how many people can tolerate so much like how i did.

What have i done again?

2009-08-18T18:48:00.003+08:00

I didnt even offend her and she just came in and say me again while i was bathing for didi.
The only possible reason i could think of is that because the mattress is lying on the floor.
But wait, its not even korkor or didi who drop it.
It was already on the floor when i went in.
WHAT THE FUCK.
If you wanna say me, say it loud and clear to my face.

Pointing fingers at me when things goes wrong

2009-08-13T15:41:00.003+08:00

FIL : 不要整天关在房间, 放 babies 出来玩.
But when i let them out of the room and play, nobody looks after them whereas, MIL & FIL will be busy looking after their "king". sometimes even 3 person look after him. But what about my kids? You asked me to let them go out the room so you can play with them but you didnt even bother to look after them? For god sake, they are your grandchildren you know. nevermind about that, but worse thing is whenever they started misbehaving outside of the room, you will start blaming me for not looking after them? HAH. I only got one pairs of hands, i need to look after meimei too. you all instead of spending all the time with the king, One of you can look after didi awhile one what. _|_ Brainless people. At least when they are in the room, i can supervise them while im feeding jaymee. My babies are not slumdogs okay, stop treating them, like one.

Fishmonger, inshort - SELFFISH

2009-08-05T15:59:00.002+08:00

FIL once told me, 一家人一起住, 就要share things together.
And now? Every little things need to be hidden, LOL? Contradicting?
Noodles, tidbits, anything that can be eaten or drink, they will keep it away so i wont take?
Worse thing is, they kept their "king" shampoo away so i wont used on my babies.
Probably the shampoo cost them a few million dollars ?
So, why use my CHEAP $8.90 baby shampoo then.
And to prove my generosity, everything i bought i will placed them out or keep them in the cupboard where they used to store noodles and everything before hubby's brothers move away.
There was once when hubby opened their "secrective cupboard"(i knew it was inside all along.) which store baby gripe and he took it to drink. Probably she was thinking . oh shit. she found out about my hiding place and immediately the next day when hubby wanted to drink it again, it was not there anymore and somewhere else. If you dont wanna share things with me, i dont fucking give a damn to it, but what about babies? they did nothing wrong to offend you and since you wanna behave like a fish monger, then you fucking should have a fish monger attitude and dont touch my things for your king. Anyone can be more self- fisher than her? Show me.